The inevitability of conflict is addressed in the Song of Solomon. Nearly two chapters are devoted to a “fight” between Solomon and his bride. The result of the conflict was a deeper and better marriage, and therefore, we are going to take a close look at the six stages of their conflict.
- Stage One: Both Parties Feel Harmed
- Stage Two: A Change of Heart
- Stage Three: Reaching Out to Make Amends
- Stage Four: Communication
- Stage Five: Forgiveness
- Stage Six: Greater Closeness and Joy
We’ll dive into each one of these stages over the coming weeks in order to gain a good understanding of how to handle conflict.
My Question For You: Are you currently experiencing conflict in your relationship? Is it based on a new problem or something that has been lingering?
My Challenge For You: Think about all the important relationships in your life. Is there any current or unresolved conflict that you need to see resolved?
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Definitely experience conflict which has been lingering for about 2 years. Based on my children from a prior marriage (ex spouse), past wounds on both parts. We love the Lord but our flesh normally rises because of unresolved issues. Communication has never really been a healthy part of resolving anything… We both feel we are at our end and I ache t the thought of walking away.